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Finding Out You and Your Partner's Compatibility

First you have to know you and your partner's Chinese Zodiac signs.
Then find out your group number according to the zodiac signs and the birth month in the table below.

Zodiac Sign Group
Rat, Horse, Rabbit, Rooster 1
Tiger, Monkey, Snake, Pig 3
Dragon, Dog, Ox, Ram 4

Birth Month Group
Feb, May, Aug, Nov 1
Jan, Apr, Jul, Oct 3
Mar, Jun, Sept, Dec 4

Sample:

Let's imagine the boyfriend is an ox born in March (4,4) and the girlfriend is a rabbit born in January (1,3).
Add the two numbers for the boyfriend (4+4=8) and then add the two numbers for the girlfriend (1+3=4).
Add those two results (8+4=12).
The sum is the number you would look in the table below, which tells you the compatibility.

Sum=4
Stability but both are too stubborn: This couple is more likely associated to be friends because they are so comfortable with each other, which makes their family environment very inviting and youthful. But both parties have to be careful to drop their stubbornness or there will come a time of great pain. They also should not hurt each other’s pride.

Sum=5
Need Sexual Harmony: Things don’t always work according to the plan and this will be a struggle for this couple. Both people want walk toward a different direction, which would end up as a severe problem. The birth of a child will resolve this problem and both will realize the importance of understanding the other person. It is a necessity to change the bedroom environment for this couple every once in a while.

Sum=6
Match Made In Heaven: Destiny could not bring together a more blessed couple than this one and problems for them are never too big enough to solve. There will be continuous sunshine as their lives go on. They will enjoy raising their children and the family’s customs will be passed on to the next generation. If there is anything to watch out for it is the health for this match made in heaven.

Sum=7
Devotion: This couple shares an abundance of love and they are so compatible that it is easy for one to pull and the other to push, so that all matters of affair are completed much faster. These two will make sure that none of their children will suffer and the whole family will sustain a level of peace without any turbulences occurring as during their lives. Sometimes it is better to hide some of the zealous enthusiasm for the relationship to work better.

Sum=8
Passionate: This couple knows that the existence of a being and the home affairs alike start from scratch and progress. That is why they will not be worried about material possessions when they start their journey together. Their fortitudes are strong that they will become prosperous together. What they have to watch out for is not to forget their manners, even as the days go by together.

Sum=9
A Desolate Family: There lies a vast difference between this couple’s opinions that this may have an effect mentally as time goes by. It may develop to more profound problems if there doesn’t exist self-sacrifice or a broad generosity for the other person. Between love and hate, exists happiness when one abandons high expectations but rather empties it out.

Sum=10
Success, Luck: This relationship built upon cordial affection that there is no troubling sign in regards to their happiness. There will be a great amount of bliss in this family and there is also the fortune of raising a child that will become an important figure in society. If there is a flaw in this relationship it will be the short separation they will survive during their early years of marriage.

Sum=11
Love’s Obstacle And Heated Words: Both people expect to receive than to give to the other person, which makes this a very selfish rendezvous. There will be too many complaints eventually a wall will exist between the two, where communication is defunct. If this relationship wants to survive, both have to introspective and realize what they could do for the other person first before they think about themselves.

Sum=12
The book of Changes Unfolds-Peace Occurs In The Later Years: Although this harmonious couple acts as one body, there will be a few pitfalls during their lives’ span, where slight competition between the two will exist. Friction is always present in a couple’s relationship but this will only last temporarily for these two. If they both keep an open mind, they are destined to happily grow old together.

Sum=13
Love’s Progress-Strong Jealousy: The tree’s natural resource of survival is water and this couple will live in beautiful harmony just like that. The wife shows devotion to her husband and the husband adheres to his wife’s wishes. Life for them is so wonderful that others may be jealous of that fact. They will be blessed with great wealth including material possession, health, and loving children. If there exists a weakness, it is love’s jealousy on both parts that would account for some distrust.

Sum=14
Family Discord-Emotional Ignorance: You are not incompatible like water and fire but living together may bring lots of pain into this relationship. There is a high likelihood that you may not persevere together due to the strain. Both have to be conscious about trying to understand the other person and be willing to give in at times. It is just as important to utilize intelligence in a relationship as in school or work.

Sum=15
A Heartbreaking Couple-Late Marriage Advisable: Your passion quickly sets on fire and loses its spark just as fast in this relationship. There are many layers of complications between you two and thus will suffer many hardships together. No matter how many you try to break up, you are inseparable due to fate. If you want to avoid the stormy weathers, then decide to get married later.

Sum=16
Perfect Combination: This couple will always have a newlywed atmosphere around them. There is great, vital energy in the couple’s affection and there will be lots of laughter going on in this family. With the couple’s initial meeting develops a favorable change of luck for both of them and this is why they develop affectionate feelings for each other. If both will pursuit to work together toward one goal, their fortune in everything will multiply in many folds. A person who was born in winter matches with someone who was born in summer and vice versa in order to balance the cosmic dual force

posted by juzmi @ 10:53 AM